President’s Message
I recently received an e-mail from my brother-in-law with simple statements around the theme of “What Have I Learned?” by the late 60 Minutes editorialist Andy Rooney. There’s wisdom and practicality in Rooney’s adages, especially with respect to the well-being of a neighborhood, so I’ve handpicked several to share, as well as adding a few of my own at the end. (Please don’t send the copyright police my way.) Rooney said:
I’ve learned…
that just one person saying to me, ‘You’ve made my day!’ makes my day.
I’ve learned…
that being kind is more important than being right.
I’ve learned…
that everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I’ve learned…
that it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I’ve learned…
that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
In keeping with his thoughts, what have I learned from my last few years of civic volunteering?
I’ve learned…
that there are many talented and good people striving each day to make our neighborhoods and city a better place.
I’ve learned…
that changing municipal policy is a slow process that will test your patience and perseverance.
I’ve learned…
that giving respect usually is reciprocated.
I’ve learned…
that I never stop learning, if I truly listen.
I’m sure most of you could add scores of these little nuggets to the list. It’s a bit cathartic, like listing things you’re thankful for at Thanksgiving, or listing all the things you love about a significant other. When my mother turned 80, I made a list of random little memories involving her that stayed with me throughout my life. We both laughed and shed a few tears reading over the list. For me, these little forays into self-reflection usually help put things in perspective and relieve frustration that probably wasn’t warranted in the first place.
I end with one last personal “what have I learned” view that developed after our first child was born and has guided me ever since through subsequent children and grandchildren.
I’ve learned…
that watching your contented sleeping child is the best reminder of what’s really important and always puts everything else a distant second.